Hey guys! Today’s post is all about confidence. This is a mindset that I was not born with, but nurtured and developed over time. However, in middle school, I found myself caring about really insignificant things. I hope this post allows you guys to free yourself from other people’s opinions and your own self-doubt. I hope you will feel comfortable in your own skin and just live your life on your own terms. When you free yourself, you are able to live up to your fullest potential. I have become so much more positive since I stopped worrying so much about what other people think of me. I am free to be ME!

1. Remember who you are…

Stay true to your roots. I did a whole post on authenticity in March 2017, so feel free to check it out for a more in-depth look at this tip. Don’t stay hung up on your flaws. Accept them and move on. You are a unique individual with unique qualities. There is nobody on this earth just like you. Love that about yourself. The French fashion designer Coco Chanel once said, “Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.” It’s so important to come to terms with who you are, but don’t let it define you, because we are constantly evolving. Never lose sight of who you are in an attempt to please other people. It takes time, but don’t give up on yourself. You are enough.

2. People are just people…

Everybody is human, and thus, everybody is flawed. Don’t allow your motivation to be defined by other people’s journeys. Everyone has their own unique path in life. Humans are just humans. Do not be intimidated. You do you and let them do them.

3. Let go of societal norms and expectations…

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I don’t have to do what everyone else is doing. What’s stopping you? DO THINGS YOUR WAY. Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons. The greatest people in history were the ones who thought differently and lived their lives outside of the norm. Always listen to guidance, but don’t waste your time living someone else’s life. Never explain yourself to anyone. You don’t need anyone’s approval. Be kind and considerate to everyone but do NOT feel the need to have to please anyone else. Live your life, believe in yourself, and go where you feel most alive.

4. Have some me-time…

When you focus on self-growth, you stop comparing yourself to others. Your well-being should always come first. Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive. Take time to do what makes your soul happy. A healthy mind gives you a positive life. Love yourself, because self love is the greatest medicine.

5. Cultivate a mindset of detachment…

If there is a person in your life who wants out, let them go. You are going to be okay. Let resentment and jealousy go. If something doesn’t work out, whether it’s a relationship, a friendship, or a job, it is for the best. Stay away from people who make you feel like you’re hard to love. I love this quote from Gordon B. Hinckley that reads, “Those who move forward with a happy spirit will find that things will always work out.” Inhale the future, exhale the past. Breathe. It hurts to hold onto something that doesn’t want to be there. Anything that is meant for you in life will find a way back into your life. Let go of an idea of how life is supposed to be. When you rid yourself of the “I need this or I won’t be happy” mentality, your life will instantly become more positive, and happiness looks gorgeous on everyone. Everything happens for a reason. All we have is now. Life is too short to worry about things that we can’t control. Instead, focus on the things you do have control over and relax.

I hope that this post helped. Know that you are unique and beautiful. Your true beauty, worth, and power come from within. May the change of seasons be a period of magnificent transformation. Talk to you soon!

xo, Liv