Hi guys! So, it’s getting to that point in the summer where back to school ads appear left and right. While the mention of the dreaded “H” word (homework, obviously) may make some stomachs turn, I’m here to help you stay positive during the year! Read on to learn how!
The most important thing to remember is that you are lucky enough to go to school and get an education, as some people do not even have that luxury. I understand, however, the struggle that school brings daily. You can make it a more enjoyable experience by doing the following…
- Find Your Squad
Your social life at school is almost as important as your education. Finding the right group of friends can help eliminate some of the stress that comes with the school year. They can help lift you up when you need it and bring some much needed fun. I love the saying, “your vibe attracts your tribe”. Embrace who you are and the right people will click and bring out the best in you.
- Avoid Drama
This is one of THE MOST IMPORTANT things to keep in mind (especially in middle and high school). If you see drama, do your best to stay away. It’s not cool to talk about people behind their backs if you wouldn’t say it to their face. Be nice to everyone and you’ll avoid issues!
- Join a Sport or Club
Though I’m not an athlete, many of my friends are and have met great people through sports. For me, I can say that being in chorus and drama club is amazing. It is a wonderful thing to bond with people over common interests and a great way to make new friends! Joining a team or club is a distraction from the monotony of everyday school and a great getaway where you can have fun doing what you love to do!
- Take Caution With Romance
High school is a time where many people start dating. While that’s perfectly fine, I advise you to be careful because lots of drama can occur with love lives. Personally, I recommend spending time with your good friends (male and female) instead of worrying about boyfriends/girlfriends. It will make all the difference.
- Go to Events Like Homecoming or Prom
I’ve seen some of my friends opt out of going to school dances because they don’t have a date or they don’t think it will be fun. You don’t have to have a date!! Go with your friends and take lots of pictures. If you go in with a positive mindset, you are sure to have a good time. You may not want to go now, but you might regret it later. Memories are made at dances so it’s really important to take it all in.
- Find Classes You Enjoy
True, not all of your classes are going to be super enjoyable. Personally, I would rather drink pickle juice everyday for the rest of my life than do math. Try to pick classes you like and get the most out of them. Come to class with an open mind and learn as much as you can.
- Find Your Style
High school is a period of self discovery. Finding your style is a super fun thing to do during the school year. Experiment and see what you like. You need to own it and disregard how other people judge you. P.S. If you want a back to school style guide let me know in the comments or on my instagram 🙂
- Make The Most of Group Projects
I will be the first one to say: GROUP. PROJECTS. SUCK. I prefer doing the work myself rather than having to rely on others who may not want to do the work or I have to re-do something that was not quite to the high standards I tend to set for myself. Listen to each other. Be patient with each other. If you use each person’s strengths, it will strengthen the overall project. Then all will be well and much less stressful.
- Enjoy The Weekends
You don’t necessarily have to go to a giant party every weekend. Spending quality time with friends when you wouldn’t normally be able to talk during school is a wonderful thing. You can go out to brunch or chill and have a movie marathon; whatever makes you happy and relaxed. The best thing is enjoying each others company.
When do you start school? Let me know in the comments below. Have an amazing year!
xo, Liv







